Growing Loyalty While Growing Your Audience
In Making Money by Skellie
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Here’s something you don’t hear often: audience growth should not always be the number one priority of your website, blog, or business.
If you’re earning an income through ads and affiliate programs, sure, grow like crazy.
But if you’re selling a product or service, a small audience may actually be the key to your success. In the beginning, at least.
Whether you’re selling an eBook, products, consulting or a newsletter, a loyal audience is far better than a large audience, and a trusting audience is far better than a big one.
A large and loyal audience is the holy grail of any online business, but it’s also the trickiest to achieve. If you thought rapid growth was tricky, try rapidly growing a loyal and trusting audience. Often, the methods you’ll use to increase one factor will damage the other.
Loyalty requires a sense of attention to the individual, approachability, and finely targeted content.
Large-scale growth requires large-scale vision. Less attention to the individual and more attention to the collective, less approachability, content with broader appeal to quickly expand your audience. But if your content is only relevant half the time, if your readers and visitors feel like you’re speaking to a collective rather than to them, true loyalty becomes a lot harder to maintain.
The loyal members of your audience are those who trust your advice, who will pay attention wherever they see your name, who will spread the word about you. They’re also much more likely to become your customers and clients.
The problem is this: while a loyal and small audience is better for your sales/business ventures than a large and unengaged audience, a small audience is hindered by one thing: it’s just that — small. A small audience can only grow so much. It places a natural ceiling on the scope of your vision.
The truth is that, while it isn’t easy, it is possible to have both loyalty, engagement and a big audience.
This delicate balance hinges on perception.
How can you make individuals feel like you’re focused on them while also attending to the needs of the collective?
How can you make your audience feel like you’re approachable without dealing with a thousand requests a day?
How can you aim your content at a broader audience while making individuals feel like what you do is finely targeted to them?
Individual focus, collective appeal
A common growth strategy is to start occasionally changing the content you produce to include new audiences. This content may not always have relevance to your existing audience. A good example of this would be that one-off content item written for social media that doesn’t really stay true to what you are about. New audiences gained by this method are usually very temporary — not because social media users are commitment-phobic, but because the rest of your content isn’t consistent with what they came for.
This isn’t to suggest you should produce content which always has the same focus. The smartest content system for growth and loyalty is to write content which includes new audiences and remains finely targeted to your existing audience. My greatest success with this method has been the article 10 Breeds of PC User Identified and Explained, which is relevant to my existing audience (we either use PCs or know people who do) and a much broader audience — anyone who uses a computer. The article has brought over 50,000 new visitors to Anywired and continues to bring in over 500 visitors a day.
Appealing to new audiences is essential for large-scale growth, but if you regularly leave large swathes of your audience behind, a culture of loyalty and trust is very difficult to develop.
Your content system for loyalty and growth is this: how can I appeal to new audiences without leaving behind the audience I already have?

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Balancing individual connections and getting things done
Customer service is often viewed as the foundation of any successful business. That’s because personal connections are the building blocks of loyalty. A person might download their favorite band’s latest album with Bittorrent instead of paying for it, but they would be unlikely to steal 99c from a friend.
Another example: think of the one author whose ideas have changed your life/business the most. How much time do you spend thinking about them, as opposed to the time you spend thinking about a dear friend who, though they are caring and entertaining, may not have changed your life at all?
Personal connections matter more than ideas and usefulness when it comes to building loyalty (though the latter two matter most when it comes to large-scale growth).
As your audience grows, so will the amount of people who try to connect with you. It may feel tempting to scale this down, but you’re damaging loyalty if you do so. One short, positive email exchange will leave more of an impression than your most useful content item.
I disagree with anyone who says deleting emails is a wise option. It isn’t. A disappointed member of your audience is not a loyal member. Someone who feels ignored by you will find it difficult to be as loyal as they once were.
It takes 10 seconds to thank someone for sending kind words your way. It takes a minute to answer a simple question. It takes one or two seconds to address your email correspondent by name. It takes another second or two to wish them a nice day. When you start to ignore these quick and easy things, you are under-valuing loyalty and you are starting to think of your audience as a mass rather than a collection of individuals.
Another fact: if you’re perceived as successful, communicating is a bigger gesture than you think it is. You might identify with this: getting an email response from someone you admire is a thrill — a delight. On the flip side, being ignored by someone you admire hurts and it highlights the inequality in your relationship: what they do means a lot to you, but they won’t let you inconvenience them for a second.
Connecting with your audience certainly does become more time consuming as you grow, and while I feel very strongly about the merits of elimination, I think this is simply too important to be ignored. Every comment you write and every email you send builds loyalty. Don’t ignore vital personal connections simply because their results can’t be quantified in numbers.
The central lesson
Anyone trying to turn attention into income should value loyalty as highly as they value growth. Growth counts for nothing without loyalty, but loyalty still counts for something without growth.
What are you doing to make your audience more loyal?
Just as importantly:
What are you doing to make your audience less loyal?
(Because there’s always something.)












March 13th, 2008
Wise words in a world of “I want it all - now!”
March 13th, 2008
Great post as usual.
Creating a loyal audience base is crucial in everything we do. Whether it is a new online business or just a blog, without loyal followers the growth of anything is almost impossible.
You summed it up very well with this statement ” Personal connections matter more than ideas and usefulness when it comes to building loyalty.” I agree. This is one of the reason follow ups are seen as one of the cornerstone in succeeding in whatever we do. It helps build a sense of personal attachment between your customer and you.
Another thing about loyalty is that loyalty from a small number of audience can amount to additions that wouldn’t otherwise be possible. Example: I buy something from Mr.X and am very satisfied. My friend has the same business needs and I refer him to Mr. X. Mr. X does the job flawlessly for him and he refers him to his friends. Loyalty keeps building and customers keep coming.
The key is to always make sure that we are loyal to our customers/clients and we will be rewarded with the same trust and loyalty. We always need to keep in mind that loyalty is such an extreme factor that it helps a business soar from the fround level to sky high.
We need to keep in mind that 80 % of our business will come from 20 % of our customers - customers that are loyal to us, customers that we are loyal to.
March 13th, 2008
For a moment I thought you had been repackaging Kevin Kelly’s post “1,000 True Fans”, but then you went on to say something much more interesting!! Apologies for the bad thoughts…
Also, I can completely confirm that slight sense of thrill after receiving email from you!
March 13th, 2008
Hi Skellie - very glad you wrote about this!
Even though I took a mini-hiatus I managed to maintain a few RSS subscribers…So I asked them today to please introduce themselves. If I know who the readers are I can also spread some link love, which equals, building loyalty
March 14th, 2008
> Growth counts for nothing without loyalty
I agree. Nice distillation.
I think the keys for today’s infopreneur are:
- trusted authority
- personal brand with a compelling promise
- differentiators
In terms of differentation, placing a premium on connection can go a long way. Win the heart, you win the mind. The reverse isn’t always true. Interestingly enough, you can measure customer emotional engagement.
While your competitors can easily duplicate your features in today’s world, they can’t easily duplicate emotional connection.
March 17th, 2008
I’ll share a secret. Content aside, what attracted me to your blog are these words from your About page: “You’re welcome to drop me a line any time”. I am not sure if you said then that you will reply, but I assumed so. If I e-mailed and didn’t receive a response, I would assume a blogger is not interested in me as a reader. The same holds true for responding to comments.
Your post is food for thought, especially for the bloggers with large audiences.
March 17th, 2008
Lovely post! I strongly resonate with the sense that loyalty is more important than growth. Maybe I feel so strongly about this because building a community is something that attracts me.
I love the fact that a sense of community is building on my blog. I’ve met some lovely people through their comments. Some are fellow bloggers and it’s lovely to walk part of this creative journey together as friends.
When I first started blogging 5 months ago, I thought of my blog as a space where I plonk a weekly article. But now I’ve realised that the wonder of blogs is that author and commentators co-create. I’ve had posts that have really gone deep and wide through wise and thoughtful comments. This is synergy.
Together something amazing can happen. But I think that this kind of co-creating can only happen with a loyal audience, not with strangers who happen to stop by on their stumble tour.
I think the one most important way to foster loyalty is to make sure that every voice is heard and respected. What I mean is that our response and that of others to commentators needs to be respectful, encouraging, and welcoming.
April 18th, 2008
What an awesome article, i hung on to every word! I definitely have a “loyal” audience, but it is a small one. I’m working on increasing the readership of my webzine, but meanwhile I’m going to keep in mind what you said by isolating/hurting the feelings of my readers by something as simple as not responding to an email. I do try to get back to folks, and in a timely manner, but I’ll admit I’ve let the occasional email slip through the cracks. I never thought about how it made them feel, or even impacted their desire to continue visiting my site.
Thank you for this!