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Chasing Coconuts: From the Cubicle to the Caribbean

This is a guest-post from Mark Hayward, writing from the Palmetto Guesthouse in Culebra, Puerto Rico.

In one of my previous guest posts here at Anywired I discussed how to remove yourself from the office and take your show on the road. Today, I thought that I would give you a little insight and look into how I went from the cubicle to the Caribbean.

My story of searching for personal freedom might be a little different than most as I now live in the Caribbean and am currently trying to develop my web presence from here. But, whatever your web worker dreams are, this story should hopefully resonate with many Anywired readers, because I’m truly an “everyman.” I do not come from money and have done every possible job from working as a waiter, landscaper, and warehouse worker to presenting data and policy to high-level government officials.

To be sure, my goal to live in the Caribbean is most likely quite analogous to your situation, whatever your objective might be, whether it’s starting your own business, telecommuting a couple of days a week, or traveling the globe. My journey was probably not too different to what many of you are hoping to achieve.

The Beginning of the Journey

Strangely enough, my journey out of the corporate world actually began when I was about fifteen (I turn 40 this year) and I don’t think I even knew what a cubicle was. During my second year of high school I had the chance to go to Hawaii with a friend and his family. To this day I can still remember stepping off the United Airlines plane and having my feet touch the sand and soil of the tropics for the very first time. Certainly, my life would never be the same.

While I was in Hawaii I witnessed a completely different way of life. I soon realized that there was way more to living than snow and cold. The trip also ignited my entrepreneurial spirit and from the time I returned, and for many months thereafter, I started drawing design ideas for a lifestyle and beach themed t-shirt line that I wanted to start (to help support my new beach life).

The Middle Part of the Journey

As my aspirations and priorities shifted over the years my desire to live in the Caribbean never wavered. Even when I tried to follow the norm and began down career paths in a few corporations I quickly realized that corporate mentality (at least in the offices that I experienced) was killing me.

Don’t get me wrong: there are some great companies to work for, I just never had the opportunity to work for them. I guess this turned out to be a positive thing because all of the office scenarios that I experienced provided the initial catalyst and impetus to keep pushing forward toward my objective. During the times of uncertainty and speculation about how I would actually make a living in the Caribbean, I always felt that preparation (e.g. acquiring unique technical skills) was the key if I was going to have success.

These days, I am quite certain that many established web workers could probably pick up tomorrow and go travel the world, or start their own practices without much of a negative effect on their income generation potential.

In addition to the above-mentioned preparation, I feel that the following key ingredients allowed for my successful journey:

  • a general disdain for corporate structure

  • careful preparation and research

  • a willingness to take risks and stepping stone positions

  • networking with people

  • serving in the Peace Corps

  • a strong desire to be an entrepreneur

  • unwavering focus on my final goal

So how did I get here?

Preparation

From my story, it appears as though my preparation phase was quite long, and indeed the idea had been planted early, but my true groundwork only began a few years ago. A good majority of my research work was done pre-blog era, meaning that there weren’t great resources around like Anywired (Thanks! — Ed) and MyTropicalEscape to help dispel myths about how to take control of your life and pursue an existence that allows you to work and be free at the same time.

Preparation can be the most arduous and frustrating of steps to success because you won’t necessarily derive any tangible results, especially in the beginning. But, if you stick it out, you might just find a golden opportunity, or at the very least come across a “stepping stone position.”

Working from the Caribbean.
Photo by yasmapaz

Stepping Stone Positions

When my wife and I determined that we did indeed want to live in the Caribbean it was then time to find work that would help us get there. After undertaking our initial preparation and determining that we could not quite fill our financial needs in the Caribbean just yet, we decided to seek various positions elsewhere that would help get us to our final goal. These are what I like to call “stepping stone positions.” Moreover this type of employment is great for freelancers who don’t necessarily want to stay in one place or need to gain some experience before they can finally settle in their desired destination.

Our stepping stone positions had us working in Papua New Guinea, American Samoa, and even briefly back at home in Massachusetts.

We always tried to keep in mind that as long as we were heading in the right direction (i.e. towards the Caribbean) all of our jobs had value. Also, I have found that pursuing new opportunities typically has a snowball effect and will generally lead to more employment prospects and enhanced chances to participate in new projects.

Focusing on the final goal

You’re probably someone who wants to pursue some sense of personal freedom in your life. One key point that I have taken away from my experience is that unless you are really lucky, tremendously gifted, or possess a technical skill that really is rare, success does not come over night. Even forgoing my initial Caribbean dream as a fifteen year old, my journey to the Caribbean took approximately ten years.

A long-term focus will serve you well.

My nine tips based on my experience of going from the cube to the Caribbean are:

  1. Maintain your focus.

  2. Be prepared – make yourself the best candidate for every situation.

  3. Take some sabbaticals or extended research trips to various destinations.

  4. Don’t be afraid to utilize stepping stone positions.

  5. Take risks.

  6. Network effectively (do this early and often).

  7. Control your destiny.

  8. Deal with failure and setbacks and move on.

  9. Remember to have fun and enjoy the complete experience.

I once read “you can’t learn how to play if you don’t get off the sidelines and get into the game.” More recently, Scott Rigsby told me, “you can’t steer a parked car.” So, with those two final thoughts in mind I would like to close by stating, “Whatever you would like to pursue” – a new job, home based employment, overseas travel, or just to telecommute one day a week, you REALLY can do it!

What are you hoping to do? Travel the globe? Become a self supported freelancer? Or, how did you get to where you are today?

Mark writes about blogging, personal freedom, and entrepreneurship over at mytropicalescape.com and if you liked this post then you might consider signing up for his RSS feed.

Editor’s note: Mark has asked that if you found this post particularly useful or informative that you please help to support the Special Olympics.

Photo by hal990.

22 Responses

03.06.08

Hmm… nice thoughts emerging from reading this post. I have a hectic life at the moment, balancing work, studies and a few other things the best I can.
I’m starting to realize this type of life isn’t what I want, at least not on a permanent basis. I find myself more and more drawn to get out of it all, and after I get my university diploma I think I’ll do just that. Still need to do some planning, since coming out of university I won’t exactly be made of money. But I think I’ll be able to manage…
Norway sounds nice to me for, say, 6 months…

03.06.08

The most difficult decision I had to make in my journey to personal freedom was to quit the corporate world. The past few years I’ve been working for myself has been a turbulent ride. Surprisingly(or not so surprisingly) I find the experience thus far enjoyable on the whole. In my first two years working independently, I took a lot of different jobs that seemed unrelated to my goals and interests. Many times I wondered why I did them in the first place but I kept moving forward. True enough a lot of the contacts and experience I gained over that period proved useful only recently.

Not many people I know can say that they enjoy their work immensely. I’m one of those people who wake up looking forward to doing my work, so I’m pretty sure I’m on the right track.

Thanks for the inspiring article!

cheers,
M

03.06.08

This is a very good post and one that feels like it is miles away for many but really as close as it can be.

My life has changed dramatically with the advent of the internet and new technology. These days I run my many enterprises from anywhere. As long as I have an internet connection, my laptop and my phone, I’m at work.

Right now I’m making an international move to a warmer climate and the very first thing I look for when find a new house is to check with internet providers to see what the connection speeds are like. I’ve even eliminate potential homes from my list due to poor connectivity.

My last working in the Caribbean experience was sitting on a ship in the Caribbean writing on my laptop while we sailed around. I could easily upload information when I had to.

For me the biggest step I see people needing to take is to stop talking about it and start doing it.

BTW, I was chatting with a guy not to long ago that write computer technical books for companies in the U.S. from his new home in the Virgin Islands.

He said that while his old stress was dealing with traffic getting to work, his new stress was maintaining power in the event of a major storm.

Finally, I agree completely, the trips away to clear your head work great. I just did a three week driving tour, wandering wherever I wanted to go. With my trusty MacBook at my side I was always at work and never at work, all at the same time.

Life is good.

03.06.08

Inspiring article on going after your dreams. I have thought about living the life in the tropics for years. Hmmmm. Why not?

Best quote here is “You can’t steer a parked car!”

I always love to read Mark’s article. It just sounds different than other entrepreneur.

I am glad that Mark is back on the blogging world. I know from my heart that Mark will be very successful in his life and living the dream he had.

Keep it up! Mark!

Great article, Mark! I am working on getting to the point where I can live wherever I want and still be able to earn a decent living.

PS: It looks like the link to mytropicalescape.com in the post is broken.

03.06.08

So great to hear from someone who has actually achieved this and loves it. Normally a story like this is the beginning of a long sales page for something.

03.06.08

Getting started is more than everything, although preparation is vital for not getting a bad start. I have seen people make their ideas a dream as they see it as impossible after no or little planning work and research done about it.

I am seeking a change by stepping into this entrepreneurial world in the early stage of my life (I am 17) as I don’t like the feeling of spending my parents’ money. Becoming an entrepreneur at a young age is challenging but doable. However, many teenagers still boast their big cars and other luxurious items bought with their parents’ money, which I think should be a shame for them.

03.06.08

Mark - great post.

I’m wondering what have you found to be the three most effective techniques/approaches for income on the Web?

This post made me flash back to my favorite road trip. I looped from WA to Key West, stopping at Nashville, Lousina, New Mexico, the Everglades … etc. Key West had a very special feel. It wasn’t like any of my other stops. Glass bottom boats, swimming with dolphins, Margarativille … sheesh. It really made me appreciate that your location can have a profound impact on how you feel.

I think it was also when it first hit me that, thanks to the Web and information age, you really can work anywhere. I then deliberately chose jobs that fill my head with valuable information everyday. I figure the most important asset in the information age is … well, information, and I’m glad to be a knowledge worker.

03.06.08

I really related to the points you made in this article. I now live in the Caribbean and the move from the UK took several years to plan. Although there are a few things that I miss, I feel I made the right decision, and I’ve maintained a good client base around the world, proving that you really can work anywhere.

03.06.08

Greetings all and Thanks for the kind comments!!

Due too the joys of living on a small island, my internet has been down all day and is still rather intermittent but I plan to respond to some of the inquiries tomorrow (internet willing).

Skellie - apologies for the technical delay.

03.06.08

The ‘Risk’ part seems like the hardest for me. I enjoyed your post and hope to try some of your suggestions

03.06.08

@Vlad - good luck with your plans and finishing University! My days are still pretty hectic, but at the end of the day I am my own boss :)

@Marlina - if you wake up looking forward to your work then I would consider you tremendously successful. As you know, pursuing personal freedom is not always easy but when all the elements come together it sure does make for a nice lifestyle.

@Steve - “Stop talking about it and start doing it.” It’s funny that it can be so difficult to actually make the leap.

Even with some potential projects that I am thinking about I don’t know why I will continue to think about them (passionately) but when it comes time for action, I lag…Best of luck escaping again!

03.06.08

Hi Corinne - that quote, “You can’t steer a parked car” came from Scott Rigsby (first physically challenged, double amputee athlete to complete the Hawaii IronMan), one of the most inspirational individuals that I have ever met. Here is an interview I did with him recently:

http://www.mytropicalescape.com/2008/01/21/scott-rigsby-do-the-unthinkable-interview/

03.06.08

@smilesthatmakemyday (Terence) - thanks for your kind words! Your story also helps to inspire me :)

@Joshua - how close are you to realizing your goal of working from anywhere? Even though I am now settled in the Caribbean, I still have MAJOR wanderlust (especially for surf trips) and hope to get back to traveling the globe in a year or so!

@Tom Beaton - glad you enjoyed the post! Someone else commented below that sometimes articles such as this are sales pitches too…What are they typically adverts for?

03.06.08

@Wayne Liew - that fact that you are ONLY 17 is a major inspiration for me! I have noticed you commenting on other blogs but never realized you were such a young entrepreneur. I imagine within the next couple of years you will be dominating the net :)

03.06.08

@J.D. - I am going to throw your question over to Skellie.

As I am still working to establish my online presence I can only state that I think if you can tap into a core group of readers on an emotional level (look at Skellie, Darren Rowse, Yaro Starak, Leo Babauta, etc), then you can have monetary success on the web.

Currently, I am working on a “health/trying to stay in shape” site that I plan to monetize…For mytropicalescape.com I would like to monetize the site but I am not a big fan of adsense so I am still looking at options to generate some income.

@Sharon - where are you in the Caribbean? Also, congrats on maintaining the client base!

03.06.08

Sunny Barbados, Mark. I also suffer the vagaries of the internet connection, but other than that it works well.

Ah, this is an echo from my soul.

Beautiful!

I strongly agree. This post brings a tear of joy to my eye.

Yes, FOCUS on what you want.

03.06.08

@Jaden - let me know if you would like the long version as a Hollywood screenplay ;-)

03.06.08

Mark,

Great stuff. Keep it coming..

03.06.08

Interesting article however, I thought when first reading it you would explain some great reason on why you do not want to live in the states. While working in DC area I met a man from Peru and we talked about having a life and all he could think about was his life in Peru. He would talk about the very exciting lifestyle that he lived and how he missed it. We both agreed that we had a life in DC that consist of awaking, driving, working, driving, eating, sleeping and repeating the process. What a bore, for we all are dying. It has been my goal for 15 years to live in the Caribbean and since then I’ve married with a 5 and 7 year old. Therefor, my Caribbean dream is on hold because my mate does not share my dream. Now my goal is to rear them and move in the future. The weather right now is 29 degrees wind chill 19. Deep in my heart I wish I can sell all that I have and leave right now. Leave all this behind just for one day of peace and serinity in the Caribbean. Wow! Until then keep living you dream and I hope that you are truly happy and thanks for sharing your happiness with us.. Al

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